Family-court research consistently shows that prolonged, high-conflict custody disputes are among the most harmful experiences for children following separation or divorce. In the United States, over one million children are affected by parental divorce each year, and studies repeatedly find that it is ongoing parental conflict — not divorce itself — that most strongly predicts negative emotional, behavioral, and psychological outcomes for children.
Protective orders and requests to restrict parenting time are essential legal tools when genuine safety concerns exist. However, national research and judicial commentary also recognize that in a subset of high-conflict custody cases, repeated motions, allegations, and emergency filings may be used strategically. When this occurs, the goal is often not a final ruling, but the creation of temporary restrictions that alter the status quo, increase pressure on the accused parent, and shift the burden of proof — even when courts later deny those requests after review.
Importantly, research does not support the idea that one gender is inherently more truthful or more deceptive in custody disputes. Allegations arise against both mothers and fathers, and courts evaluate each request based on evidence, credibility, and applicable legal standards at the time decisions are made.
When allegations are raised repeatedly but denied after judicial review, the process itself can still have lasting consequences. Parents may experience financial strain, reputational harm, emotional distress, and reduced time with their children. Children, in turn, may experience anxiety, loyalty conflicts, confusion about truth versus narrative, and long-term stress — particularly when conflict continues without resolution.
For this reason, courts, mental-health professionals, and child-development researchers consistently emphasize the importance of evidence-based decision-making, judicial oversight, and minimizing unnecessary litigation. Transparency around court outcomes, medical findings, and administrative records helps provide context and allows the public to distinguish between allegations and adjudicated facts.